I was born in 1983 and I am from the UK. I am a white British female. I lived in a small town in South Yorkshire; I went to an almost entirely White British school. In fact at the time there were only two non-white British students. A lot of the people in the town where I lived had little ambition or desire to learn about different cultures. There was, and still is, a lot of racial intolerance. I did not really fit in at school and was bullied because of my interests and appearance. I was always open minded though about people of different cultures and races and I knew I wanted to learn and be successful in the future. However I had never left the UK until I went on my first international exchange. I had been a very shy person and although my involvement in performing arts had made me slightly more outgoing I was very nervous about meeting new people.
My first international experience came when I was in year 12, two weeks after my 16th birthday. I was offered the chance to take part in an exchange with a formerly Bedouin Arab community in Israel. I jumped at the chance. My parents were very concerned about me, my diabetes and lack of travel experience worried them and they did not want me to go. I persuaded them (eventually) though. I’m not sure why I wanted to go I just thought it was a once in a lifetime opportunity. I loved every minute of being there, we are still in contact now 10 years later.
I was eager to do more and in subsequent years attended international camps, Youth Action Week and Blue Sky 05 in Macedonia. My only regret is that I didn’t get the opportunity to do more! I am much more confident now and I am even able to speak publicly. It is hard to specify exactly what I learned through these experiences. Of course I developed leadership, diplomacy, communication and problem solving skills along with the ability to go for huge amounts of time with little or no sleep!
I believe that my international experiences brought me out of my shell and gave me a passion for working with young people. It has also given me an interesting C.V., not many people can say that they have edited articles on a website for young people across Southeast Europe and the UK, or attended summer schools in Macedonia.
I look at some of the people I went to school with, and the students I work with now and recognise the fear of the unknown I used to see in the students we took on our international trips. I know that they lead very insular lives and I would love to show them a wealth of other cultures and experiences, to show them what is really out there in the world. Young people who take part in these trips always have something to say, something to talk about, and they seem to know that their opinion counts. I believe that it sets you apart from the crowds as you have done something quite scary, but brilliant, worthwhile and different at the same time.
I am now working with young people who are excluded from school. I teach students who no one else will have in their classroom due to their behavioural problems. I decided to do this because as I said my favourite moments during Blue Sky especially was getting to know the young people, listening to them and trying to do my best to help them any way I could.
So what would I say to young people thinking about doing something similar … ? Take a deep breath, close your eyes and go for it!! You will never regret the experience and the more you put in the more you will get out. Everything worth having is worth working hard for and international activities are just the same. I would not be the person I am now without mine, instead of fighting with unruly teenagers, arguing with schools for resources and trying to change outside and inside perceptions and attitudes I would be in a lab on my own completing my research and as worthy as that would be I don’t feel I would be as passionate or stimulated by it and I can’t wait to do even more. It is my dream to take a group of students like mine on an international camp – I can’t imagine the impact it would have on them!